The Dark Side of Scorpio Men…

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Excerpt from the Book “How to Spot a Bastard by His Star Sign” by Adele Lang.

Being in the early stages of a relationship with a Scorpio man, I find this to be a real fucking hoot.

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All those dark, brooding, monosyllabic types, who fill the pages of cheap romantic novels with their strong jaws and piercing eyes, are Scorpios. You know the story: boy meets girl. Boy tortures girl because of a series of very silly misunderstandings and because he enjoys it. Girl becomes a psychological wreck. Boy sweeps girl into his arms and mumbles something about undying love. (He has to sweep her into his arms because by this stage the poor woman has completely fallen apart.). This is where the book ends. There is a very good reason for this. Mills & Boon know what is to come is far too awful to be published. Yet, this paperback ideal of love still manages to override the common sense of most women. We find the strong, silent, manipulative type irresistible. And we sit prettily on our hope chests with our long auburn curls in charming disarray, waiting breathlessly with much fluttering of eyelashes for Scorpio to stride into our lives. (NB: Romantic heroes never walk, they always stride – manfully and purposefully. Its dreadfully tiring for them, and its one of the reasons why they are so moody and irritable.) And once a Scorpio bastard arrives? Well, there’s nothing like a spot of good-old-fashioned-bodice-ripping to get things started. Just swoon gracefully into his arms and let him have his wicked way with you. Then have your head examined.

The strong, silent type is what you should look for when purchasing white goods. Whilst these are desirable attributes in a washing machine, you won’t enjoy them in Scorpio. He is strong. Much stronger than you. Which means when there’s a fight, you’ll lose. And he is silent. Which means communication within the relationship is going to be a little one-sided. Holding back information is actually one of his favourite pastimes. Mostly because it upsets you. Well, what did you expect? Anyone described as “dark” and “brooding” is not going to be a naturally open, caring, sharing person. And Scorpio has a dark side that makes Darth Vader look like Mr. Whippy. As for brooding ability, he leaves Heathcliffe out on the moors: he’ll hold a grudge against you until the day you die. And your death will only appease him a little. However, you’ll never even know he has a grudge against you. A Scorpio bastard won’t confront you openly. That would be too much like fair play. He’s more likely to watch and wait – decades if necessary – for the chance to launch an attack when you’re not paying attention. And when it finally hits, it’ll make a stealth bomber look weak and clumsy.

Unfortunately, because of the amount of literature (if books featuring Fabio on the cover, count as literature) you’ve absorbed, you’ll class all his behavior as normal. You’ll revel in all the angst. Being miserable all the time must mean it’s true love. This is all so romantic. You’ll even be flattered by his possessiveness (despite the fact that you’re not allowed to go anywhere of see anyone). It means he can’t bear to be without you. Of course, he can’t bear to be with you either – not when there are still so many things wrong with you.

He’ll manipulate you until you become exactly what he wants you to be. Then he’ll lose respect for you, as you’re so easily manipulated. Then he’ll start looking around for someone else to manipulate. This is when you start looking around too. For reputable psychiatric help. Because, in the midst of torturing you, Scorpio will suddenly turn into a model of gentleness and consideration. He’ll even be kind to animals (standard behavior for all romantic hero types – designed to suck you into believing they have a soft, sensitive side). Don’t be fooled. Its just part if the callous game he’s playing with your mental and emotional health. His objective is to annihilate you. But if he can make you believe he is capable of such an act, it makes it all so much more fun when he actually does destroy you.

And destroy you he will. This is what Scorpio does best. And besides, its how he likes to spend his spare time. Once you are a broken mess on the floor he’ll pick you up and glue the pieces, so you are whole once more, and he can start all over again. He takes his hobby very seriously. It brings him hours of enjoyment and allows him to explore his destructive talents. And you’ll get something out of it too. A hobby of your own: a lifelong obsession with him. Which allows you to spend your spare time in expensive 12-step programs undergoing extensive counselling. Check into group therapy when you find yourself getting upset just because he is sleeping with other women. It’s really none of your business. You are only his girlfriend / wife / mother of his children. And anyway, you’ll meet his mistress soon enough when she joins the group after she discovers he is doing the same thing to her. Then you can console each other about your mutual stupidity. You’ll both be introduced to a nationwide Unhealthily Obsessed Co-dependant Support Network for Women who have dated Scorpio. It comes with a 24-hour hotline, which you’ll put to very good use. (This is a free-of-charge service, one of many sponsored by the Aspiring Romantic Novelists Association who use it for research purposes.)

The reason Scorpio inspires such obsessive behavior is because he is so obsessive himself – about sex. He thinks about it twice as much as other men, which basically means it’s on his mind all the time. Which makes him the blueprint for the complete and utter bastard. Which in turn, makes women think he’s sexy. Which therefore means he really can’t help but catch one or two of the airborne little-black-dress-clad oestrogen packages continually heading his way. (Warning: Don’t be tempted to have an affair yourself to get back at your Scorpio bastard. Right now, you’re in no emotional state to witness a jealous streak the size of the San Andreas Fault. This is probably unnecessary advice, as you won’t have time between those ever-increasing therapy sessions and that compulsive shopping habit you recently developed. And, lets face it, the nervous twitch and chronic alcoholism aren’t exactly going to be attracting men in droves.)

If it helps your sanity, blame the other poor, obsessed women. Or their therapists. Or the government. Or, better yet, blame yourself. No one forced you to read all those ridiculous love stories. You wanted a club-wielding, hair-dragging, heroic bastard. You’ve got him. Now you have to live with him. So, just throw yourself into his arms or under the next passing truck. Either way, the ending will be the same.

HOW TO SPOT ONE
When a Scorpio bastard looks at you, you will feel a strong urge to shed your underwear. He will have this baffling effect upon you, even if you’re in a very public place and you find him most unattractive.

WHERE TO FIND ONE
Follow the trail of emotional wrecks to his door. Or, better still, let him find you. Because then, at least, you won’t be the one who started the relationship which ruined your life.

HOW TO INTRIGUE ONE
Be sunny and happy and full of life. He won’t be able to resist the challenge of luring you into the pits of hell. Once there, just be whatever he wants you to be. Holding onto your personality will only cause you a lot of unnecessary pain.

THE FIRST DATE
Scorpio will charm you into submission. Or else he’ll worm his way into your life and affections without you noticing – like cancer or some other terminal disease. And after just one date, he’ll know everything there is to know about you, and you’ll know absolutely nothing about him. This sets the tone for the entire relationship.

WHEN TO DO THE DEED
Because Scorpio has so many hidden agendas, you’ll never be able to pick the right time. So go to bed when he wants to, generally just after you’ve been introduced. (Tip: When you do it, make like a porn star, but somehow give the impression you’ve never done it before.)

WHEN TO POP THE QUESTION
When you feel the inclination to do this, have yourself committed.

IF HE DROPS YOU
Trying to exact revenge will only serve to amuse Scorpio, as your attempts will seem so amateur. Besides, he’ll be flattered he still has total control over your emotions and your life. On the other hand, running after him, doing your best impersonation of a doormat will only invite him to clean his boots on you. Don’t waste your energy. You’ll need it over the next few years, just to get through therapy.

IF YOU DROP HIM
He’ll get over it. If, however, he thinks you’ve slighted him, its best to watch out for yourself and take extra precautions for the next ten or 20 years – at least.

58 comments
  1. Ginger said:

    Omg, this is the pattern I see with a Scorpio I am leaving……… I am a 48 year old cancer women. I am fed up off and on 6 months…… On to the next one…… Let him put the nail in the coffin, play dead and move on…….. Don’t look back sometimes you have to loose the war to winter war…….. Let others love you.. Share the love and be happy

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    • Theresa said:

      I am a cancer female and regrettably, fell for a scorpio man. I was with him for a few years, I thought he was the love of my life. How wrong was I. The article depicted that creeps profile exactly. He manipulated me, chronically lied, had multiple women, The lying, cheating, and manipulation was pathological. I left him for 6 months at a time, each time I got back he did the same thing over and over again, he would pursue me, and swear on his sons eyesight that he wasn’t with anyone. He was a pathological sociopath, fit the criteria perfectly. He had an agenda for every move he made, with no conscience. I was a doormat always wanted to believe him, I went through emotional hell. Every move is a mind game, so he can make you doubt yourself, confuse and play passive aggressive. If you suspect your scorpio man of this behavior, it is not your imagination, repeat: It is not your imagination. Please get out!!!! I am still trying to get back my strength, independence and emotional state. It’s been 8 months since I left him.

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      • Good luck to you gaining your strength and self love back! I know it’s a hard road but take it a day at a time.

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      • BK said:

        You know how they do it? They don’t LIE per say, they walk a fine line of truth and non-truth so when confronted, they can prove their point whilst making you feel like you’re losing your damned mind.
        They are dangerous, in my opinion. I’ve been with two of them and as an Aries, have walked out, head held high and not looked back. If they cannot see how awesome I am, they do NOT deserve me and I am way better off without them. I had the fortune of running into the first one recently while he was at a bridal show with his fiance’. It was sweet, seeing him there while I was a vendor, running my own company. He tried to play nice, but I was stone-faced the entire time. I suspect they will not be hiring me to do their wedding lol!
        The second one finds convenient excuses not to show up when he says he will and does not bother to call, text, or otherwise. And when I would get mad at him and stop talking to him altogether he would come running like a wounded puppy. I now understand that was his Achilles heel. I will not be talking to him again in the future. I am so done with Scorpios. So not worth my time. I am NOT second rate and I refuse to be treated like second rate. Love me or not, but if not, take a hike. I don’t need your sorry excuse of a man. :-P

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      • Truly amazing how many horror stories women have of Scorpio men!

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      • MB said:

        @BK – No. They lie, plain and simple. White lie. Black lie. A lie is a lie. The Scorpio man stalking my daughter promised her the world if she’d give her heart to him.

        My daughter, a strong Scorpio herself, saw right through him. She counter-asked, “Will you give your heart to me and stop your 3 a.m. booty-calls?” to which he replied, “Don’t ask for that.” When she told him that he shouldn’t ask the same of her, he tells her with that arrogant look, “I’ve made up my mind. You’re mine and I won’t let any other man take you from me”, to which she responded, “Monogamy isn’t a one-way street” and promptly dumped him for better guys.

        She’s a proud Scorpio who never plays second fiddle in *any* relationship. She’s moved on. He can’t stop stalking her. Now she’s seeing a wonderful and handsome Taurean male whose father is a successful lawyer and partner in a prestigious law firm – which might come in handy if that Scorp tries to approach her and try and intimidate her to make her come back to him.

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  2. Anonymous said:

    Oh boy, I am possibly getting started with one.. Well it kind of started over a year ago but due to a move and his attempts at mind-bending it’s been draggggged out. We are young, 21 and 22, so maybe we can stop the bad habits before they get started.. prevention… but, ohhhh boy, a lot of this rings true. The possessiveness. We don’t even have an agreement to each other but the shielding from other men (or attempts. i am so far away :P) are there. And flattering, at this distance. Maybe if we can keep this thing relatively sane without letting it heat up too quick, this article won’t apply!

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  3. Tripnik said:

    Wow…. My Scorpio to the core.. He’s in jail for domestic violence on me… After only 10 months of dating

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  4. Anonymous said:

    This is so accurate i couldn’t stop laughing!! Especially the HOW TO SPOT ONE section. Unbelievable! Is it too late to run and never look back??

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  5. Anonymous said:

    Omg.. This describes my scorpio completely. Been off and on with him for about 8 years. And as a Capricorn, he can be too much to deal with at times.

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  6. April said:

    WOW!!! What a waste of a life an ne e r find true happiness. He tried to play me I called him out on his B S. He went silent, no fighting back nothing. Should I be worried?

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    • Anonymous said:

      yes mam april
      I am a scorpio
      that mf is just testing you with the silence
      ….I would say slowly let him go….. very slowly and make him happy so he won’t think twice to come back at ya lol

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  7. ocolshit said:

    Just remember everyone this is just the dark side of Scorpio men ;) They have so many redeeming qualities like loyalty, depth of love, passion, and confidence!

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    • Theresa said:

      There was absolutely, unequivocally NO LOYALTY!!!

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    • MB said:

      There’s no loyalty unless it’s for himself! He’s a huge fan of double standards – for HIM and for him ONLY. They have a noun for that…it’s called hypocrite.

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  8. ayy, im a scorpio, im 19 years old, and most of that is true, but its only like that because of bad experiences we been through, we are more then the dark side that ever one points out, who don’t have a darkside? like scarface say ”you need people like me to point your finger at and say that’s the bad guy”. but really most woman want control and want a nigga to just give in, it don’t work like that

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    • Goddess69 said:

      Some women want to give the control to their man, granted he’s trustworthy and has the vision to lead us I’m the right direction. That’s why Scorpio men are good with cancer women. I’m in no way weak but I’m feminine and lovely enough to let a man be a man. Even at 19, you sound very strong in your words. I hope you sore like an eagle and never crawl like a lizard, no matter what life deals you.
      Take care, young Sir.
      Scem629@gmail.com

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      • Scp Woman said:

        You’re nuts and completely brainwashed if you think a Scorpio man will lead you in the right direction. Let him destroy you and see how you feel then. I’ve been there–twice.

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      • I kind of agree… Still feeling the burn from one.

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  9. Jamie said:

    A little one sided, we Scorpio men are bastards and that’s it! they’re are so much good about Scorpios, just don’t wrong them.

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    • Oh I know.. This is quite funny to read but obviously an exaggeration. I’m dating a scorpio man now and he’s lovely.

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      • Anonymous said:

        Just seems a bit harsh, makes me feel bad

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  10. maria said:

    my god.i just got saved from entering into a relatiopnship with this fu****ng scorpio bastard…they are really mean.plz girls if u r fun loving person dont ever commit to a scorpio.

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  11. Anonymous said:

    damn. this was hilarious and slightly terrifying at the same time. as a cancer i’ve fallen for a scorpio and it’s a constant battle of emotions with him. he’s just hiding things and playing it cool because he’s been hurt before (obviously) and thinks that all women run game so he has to do that same.

    as far as them being mean, he says slick things out of his mouth that i often overlook, i don’t feel damaged by it. i am a caring and sharing kind of girl but i also have a sense of humor and grain of sarcasm that carries me. i find that it’s just (telling the truth) that they can’t handle so actually they’re the ones who lose and not us.

    if you’re the type of girl that needs constant attention then being with a scorpio is not for you. when they GIVE you the attention it’s addictive but sooner or later it falls off, suddenly, and you’re left wondering what happened and why you’re so hooked on it in the first place? they commit themselves to a lot of things unnecessarily because they like adventure even though they seem stand off-ish, but that will get in the way of his ability to commit his time and efforts to you fully.

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    • collins said:

      wow!!!..you are very correct,I’m a scorpio and i’m actually going through what u said in your first paragraph.

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  12. ann-onymous said:

    I have to say that I adored the article. It was extremely hilarious and I found myself really laughing out loud. Moreover, the English is impeccable, which I truly appreciate. I am a Libra sun with Sag rising moon. My Scorpio off-on boyfriend since Nov 2013 (he’s in his 50s, and I’m in my 40s!) has sent me to the brink of insanity and in all honesty, I did have to go through therapy because he had taken out a lot of his past baggage on me to the point of me harboring suicidal ideations. Thank goodness I never allowed myself to be hurled over the precipice into the abyss far below, catapulted into clinical depression, only by sheer willpower and the refusal to admit to defeat. He was damaged as a child and his ex wife is still torturing him, hence I became his proverbial punching bag. I do stand up to him sometimes, but otherwise I am extremely patient with him. With my Sag rising traits, from the second he began pursuing me, I had the strongest urge to run from him, but I was caught and stood there stripped to the core, mesmerized by the scorpion circling me with his mighty stinger poised and ready to strike, should I had even dared to sneeze.
    The first three months were blissful, romantic and utterly intense. Then came the mental and emotional abuse. He held me in his powerful pincers and continously lashed out at me. I was told by psychics to stand my ground as I was helping him heal his hurt, and that I would be spared the pain later when I felt that I could not go on, and that later this year, all things will turn around and he will love me more than he ever did in the past, and next year ask me for my hand in marriage. I think his venom just made my neuromuscular system so numb, affording me the strength to endure his pain for him while he chose to neglect me except to vindictively jab and prod me intermittently with that stinger of his to ensure that I was still breathing. I clung on by sheer willpower. True to their predictions, he is now returning to me with renewed interest, even though he kept me around all this time, while I lived my own life and would be there for him when he needed me. He has been testing me and is now finally coming to terms with how he truly feels for me, and knowing that I loved him in spite of everything I went through with and for him. I know that he IS the one, as he is learning that I am the one for him.
    I had only ever been with Leos and have never experienced anything with a Scorpio. I had begun reading about astrological traits within this month and have learned so much about Scorpios, and had grown a lot through my ordeal with him. I know to allow him to take the lead in some things, but to never back down when I know I am right.
    The ride will still be bumpy for a little while, but I’m prepared for it. Obsession, you say? I win that category, hands down. Strength, you mention? I’ll share that one with him, true to my Libra sun self.
    Why, you ask? Because he’s special, and I am a healer by trade.

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    • ocolshit said:

      Great comment!! You might be interested in checking out the book with similar pieces for each star sign. Very funny stuff check out the link above.

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      • ann-onymous said:

        I cannot wait to read it.

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  13. Preethi D'souza said:

    First & foremost not all scorpios are bastards..Im in love with one for a yr & a half n he loves me crazy….
    mills & boons are just fictional books ,you hav just characterized all the guys from mills & boons as scorpios…i have read a few mills & boons & trust me nowhere does it state that the guys are scorpio.
    my guy is strong,silent manipulative only those who have used or manipulated him & absolutely irresistable.these men take time to know their women,yeah they crave sex but they respect you & your body more…
    Its true I lose many fights but den not all are winners & if it means losing a fight to save your relation & letting go of your ego,im all for it…i cant lose him.Yes! hes the silent type ,only talks what he wants to,wont pour out his heart & cry at the drop of a hat.Its not that holding back information is his favourite passtime,he holds back cause hes afraid of being hurt & dissapointed…he’s felt & seen pain,they are human after all.
    He holds a grudge but against those who have used him,played with his feelings never against those who love him.We fight a lot but he holds no grudge against me…yes hes hurt at times cause being a sagittarius i’m quite outspoken & blunt…
    He admits that he is not a saint…he is a scorpio,tell me now which other guy from any sign says that..my guy is not possessive,surprisingly I am…he does not want to change me but yes he does point out facts which I find hard to digest..
    scorpios are kind to animals , my sister being a scorpio has two dogs but does not treat them differently…she loves them & calls them her children..they do have a sensitive side & trust me you have no idea of the wealth of emotions that run thru them for the people whom they love.
    scorpios are not destructive..they love one person & are loyal no matter what..I feel bad for the author…you just met the wrong person & trust me not all of them are like what you described here.
    OMG!!! he is so in love with himself but then thats perfectly ok…cause truth be told if you cannot love yourself how can you love another.we cannot be together but that doesnt mean i wont stand by him ..what you’ve written here is the work of a mean ,lost ,vindictive ,spiteful person who cant accept the fact that a scorpio left them cause of their hatefullness….

    HOW TO SPOT ONE- when a scorpio looks at you ,you know your desired .
    WHERE TO FIND ONE- they are everywhere….you will find them when you have to .
    HOW TO INTRIGUE ONE-be yourself,yes he loves a person full of life cause he knows your gonna be his salvation.
    THE FIRST DATE-he kept his distance, we spoke ,had donuts out ,kissed only my hand & wished me goodnight…i initiated the first kiss cause he was soooo carefull with me…ohh god!
    WHEN TO DO THE DEED – he gave me enough time,never forced himself…waited till I was ready.
    WHEN TO POP THE QUESTION- it wil happen in time….trust me.
    IF HE DROPS YOU -give them time ..they need their space so often at times you think its over ..but if your love is true they will be back…
    IF YOU DROP HIM- trust me its difficult to forget him…or drop him…

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    • ocolshit said:

      Great perspective! Indeed they are hard to forget :(

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  14. I had posted a comment here about scorpios ..why is my post not showing….

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  15. Anonymous said:

    That’s the serpent form a Scorpio, I’m an Eagle, all Scorps aren’t alike #FYI

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  16. ann-onymous said:

    I read the book. It’s absolutely hilarious, such a fun read that I devoured it in no time at all. Thank you for calling our attention to the book.

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      • Anonymous said:

        Well I’m in a relationship with my best friend who is a Scorpio an he was always there in the beginning staying over hanging out an then he stop. I barley see him all we do is text an I think he is living a double life he is so secretive. I ask to see him some times an it’s always a excuse I recently seen something on his IG page which has me to believe he is living a double life I put the pieces together times dates ect an.I think he is living it but if he was my BestFriend why not just keep it real with me I don’t kno if it’s true hope it’s not because I will be hurt an heart broken. Tell me what do you think I should do??

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      • ocolshit said:

        Trust is the foundation of every relationship worth having. If you don’t trust him you need to determine if that’s an issue with you, or an issue with him.

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  17. Queen Cobra said:

    So on point, I enjoyed reading this..Great pointers

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  18. Anonymous said:

    I’m a Scorpio and this stuff is not true for all of us. And I say not All of us because I has a twin and he is a barnyard.

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  19. becky said:

    One lil thing: as an aries woman, i WILL come out on top. No man will ever drag me into the depths of hell. Try if you like but i will be on the cliff face looking down at you laughing at your well thought out but still ineffective attempt. There is a reason the aries are first in the zodiac!

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    • time to fuck you said:

      you can dream on that :D they dnt even care what you are bcz for them once u r gone u r nobody and just a piece of shit you may stand on top of the cliff face looking down at them but they still be the one standing on the road head high and watching if someone really exist . this is the reason this is the cruelest sign of all and the most powerful in all zodiac . by looking down at them will not hurt them it will honor them bcz they look down to them already , you cant hurt them bcz they hurt themselves several times before you do so they are use to it no problem if the new pain is stronger then the last one it will only encourage them .if you think you are proud they are prouder then you imagination . my advice never be their target it dont even matters to them even if you are HULK because they dont care . they always have a plan for revenge you wont be able to point what hits you and they will always attack when you dont expect it . remember women is always weak to men and if you think women is powerful then men without a help of another men give it a try in UFC and you will realize what men actually is if he puts no mercy on women .and between according to me only 3 % is true in zodiac`s infact zodiac`s are written by peoples like you and me .

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      • Becky said:

        That’s their opinion and I could give a rats patoot what they think. They are nothing to me. They do not deserve me and they will not have me. I am beyond them. I am unreachable. They may be cruel, but that is their weakness that causes their own pain and suffering and I refuse to feel sorry for them. Conversely, I have no intention of hurting them either. If I do, that lends credence to their master plan and quite frankly, I refuse to stoop to that level. Further, I don’t care enough about them or their master plan to play along. Maybe some women are weak, but I have never been nor will I ever be. It takes a hell of a strong man to keep up with me. My motto is keep up or get out of my way. If you read up on the Aries sign, I am absolutely all of that right down to a fault, but I know this and accept this. I am who I am and love myself for it. My faults give me something to work on ;-)
        I scoff at the Scorpio and their pathetic lives. As they say in the Holy Grail, “I fart in your general direction, come back an I shall taunt you a second time” lol lol lol
        So yah, long story short, they can do whatever they want, but seriously, I’m not playing their game. I am smarter, wiser, and refuse to ever be victimized. I know what they’re about and I can spot one a mile away. I turn and saunter off. Let them watch ha!

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  20. Scp Woman said:

    I’m a Scorpio Woman and I have loved two of these bastards. I can’t believe I was fool enough after the first one. Both of them played emotionally manipulative games that drove my self-esteem to nothing; they would pick fights all the time just to “make up” so that they could try to make everything “romantic” again. I lost all desire for the second one after the first 3-1/2 months, because I never felt the same after he started to talk about his ex and put me down repeatedly, accusing ME of starting the arguments! I can tell you, the women are much different than the men, at least I am. I don’t like fighting or playing games. My Chiron is in Aries and my Mercury is in Libra, so I pretty much tell it like it is! Not everyone likes that, but at least I’m up front; I don’t try to make people “guess” what I’m feeling and then attack them when they try. I know if I ever meet another Scorpio man, I will run for the hills and never look back; I have completely lost my self-confidence and sanity because of the last one. I deserve better than to be made to feel like garbage.

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  21. Jenn said:

    Lol I died laughing. Now everyone feel sorry for the poor Taurus female who attracts her Scorpio opposite like a magnet. I walk into public and they just find me – especially the moon sign Scorps. I’m almost an expert now at dealing with them. Almost. ;) The best way to wound them is to take away their ability to watch/observe you. Go silent and disappear so they can’t collect information on you. They are the types that would watch out on the perimeter for life if you allow it.

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    • pisceangoddess said:

      I am a Pisces and I attract Scorpio like no other. As far as their tantrums go….I just nod and agree. I flip it on them easily until they beg forgiveness. I am in no way weak willed or controllable. I know their game well. I just continue to mirror them or flip it. My scorpio man is very compliant and kind. They need to see themselves in a mirror. He has gotten assertive to push me into what he wants, I tell him he’s right and that I do understand it is an issue with me and something I have been working on for MYSELF, NOT HIM. He throws tantrums all the time when he doesn’t like something. You can never lash out and be mean, you have to boast him and point out his flaws in a professional manner. He understands that better. They like a powerful talented yet kind woman. YOU really gotta have it all. They don’t want a toy. I’ve never been phased by a scorpio. I am friends with many, even exes. Mine was spewing personal details a week in, he has been so sympathetic and even admitted fault, with actual correction. Handle him wrong, yes he will bastard out. You heard it from Pisces girls.

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  22. Anonymous said:

    ì am a scorpio woman octorber 28 to be precise, dating a scorpio man which coincidentally we share the same date…our relationship has been on and off, i dont really know him like i would have loved too, now i want u to advice if i should move on or just call it quit.

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  23. time to fuck you said:

    you stupid peoples are insane . stars never proves everything every soul is different star is only a prespective . ok there are somethings which might be true like revengeful , secretive , loner but not everything its person is judged by his nature not by stars . if u want to see a dark side of a person u will never find any 1 good , everyone has dark side but that dosent means he is borned asshole time makes a person evil nobody born evil . what u want that you go flirt with him cheat him and he say ohh HI how are u i am a fool please bite my ass ? its simple you hurt him he will hurt you in return for them everything is revenge and when its about revenge they will never leave you without having one if they betray you its bcz you give them the reason to hurt you in that manner . if u cant be real or if you cant commit to one guy then its simple scorpio is not for you find some other . and if you think you have forgotten them and turned your back on them and keep your face like a stone to them my advice you are stupid bcz they forgot you on the day they left you , for them you are invisible and dead you dont appear in their world . you might remember them as the one asshole, but they deny even knowing you ,for them you are dead , for them you r nothing more then a monkey who they kicked , if you think you made them jealous by showing with another man you are bitch bcz they dont even know you who are you , once they decide you are nobody , you are nothing more then a enemy or a monkey to them they dont care what you do , if you think its you who dont call them or look at them then you better watch out bcz they dont even give a shit about you from the day they left you . think 1 million times before you commit to a scorpio men , he dont like hookers or whores who cherish around several males , they are for 1 and they want 1 for them other are not even counted . you can only bark but you dont know the tortures they go through everyday , why not you put ur self in their boots and then play blame game ? ohh maybe you cant because you dont have guts to do that but ask these males they already put themselves on other boots to know how others are going through . you cant survive 1 day with a brain of a scorpio . they suffer it everyday the tortures in their brain . bcz the way they look on world u cant and can neevr bcz they feel and where u just see . this is the most simple sign of all zodiac which is manipulated too much and become difficult for others to understood . stay loyal to them they will stay loyal to you , you hurt/betray them they will open gates of hell on you because after that you nothing to them except a enemy or a target . motive is simple TIT FOR TAT. and I am not scorpio

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  24. jay said:

    Im a scorpio male and all I can think about is eating the hearts of the kind stupid women who have tried to love me. being a scorpio I obviously only have the emotional capacity of a roaring lion.LOLOLOLOL !!!!!!!!!!!!! being so sensitive myself , instead of saying something that might hurt someone I will wait to better understand my feelings(WE ARE NOT HIDING ANYTHING) . you may see me as moody but im wondering how you could be so stupid as to not know that you are boring , shallow, vain, and cruel.( YOU ARE NOT MY F****G JUDGE) you see me as standoffish but I see you as using social niceties to hide your lack of intelligence and cowardliness in standing in your personal truth.

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  25. Anon said:

    This is so true, I had the misfortune to marry one. He raped me throughout our marraige, I only had the courage to leave him when he turned on our daughter and sexually abused her. I also went out with a different scorpio, who beat me black and blue. These men, when dangerous are the most dangerous of all. Total sociopaths, devoid of empathy for anyone but themselves, stay away at all costs. I am a capricorn woman picking up the pieces of my own and my kids lives.

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    • MB said:

      My daughter is a Scorpio who, unfortunately, attracted a powerful, overly-proud, and wealthy Scorpio male ten years her senior. They had a short fling and she had already enough of his arrogance and promptly dumped his behind. He’s handsome, well-built, charming, charismatic – and a total sociopath.

      He’s been pursuing her for over a year and a half while he kept it a secret that he already had a gf who was expecting his first child! Even when his gf was ripe and ready to give birth to his daughter, he couldn’t let my daughter go. He still can’t let her go. He stalks her online, scares other men away who try to contact her, and has even flown back from another State (where he was spending a nice 4th of July weekend with his gf and her family!) when he realized she was going out on a date with another guy.

      He’s intimidated guys who wanted to date her: a doctor who really loved her (and she really fell for him) and a wealthy Brit, among a few. This Scorp guy had promised her the moon if she gave her heart to him; houses, boats, everything, but being a Scorpio herself – and a very intelligent one at that – she didn’t believe him and it turns out she was right to do so, but he won’t give up!

      She’s now seeing a wonderful Taurean who, thank god, has a successful attorney father who will go after that sob should he try to destroy this budding relationship as he had destroyed previous relationships. He’s told her that he’s made up his mind and that she belongs to him, and that if he’ll make sure that if she won’t be his mistress, he’ll ensure she’ll never be with another guy.

      Like I said…total sociopath.

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  26. hahaa love this! Perfectly accurate. I’ve been off and on with one for 5 years, he goes away months at a time not a word nd then he comes back, goes away..comes back, he’s put me through hell. he’s just asked for a break this morning as he feels I am manipulating him!! haha what a joke! I do hope he comes back tho, stupid me I actually love him (but I’m not allowed to tell him that)
    He will never destroy the life out in me though

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    • MB said:

      Why do you put up with it, fridayblack13? That’s an abusive relationship if ever I’ve heard of one.

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  27. Scorpio man said:

    All this is true, but only to the women who didnt prove worthy, and by prove worthy I mean born worthy, cause usually we know if you meet all qualifications immediately because who you truly are met our standards, but God help the women who come close because out of sheer loniless we’ll keep you around for as long as you can stand with no intentions of truly loving you

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    • MB said:

      Scorpio man…has it ever occurred to you that, being as intense as you are, YOU are the one getting hurt by all of this? Deep inside, you’re looking for your soul mate, but you’ll never find her/him if you keep pushing people away and acting like it doesn’t bother you. You know it does. I know how deeply Scorpios hurt after a break-up, and it’s not hard for other people to see. The fact that Scorpios can’t let go of a gf or bf – even for decades on end – is a sure sign that they’re the ones who can’t let go and are hurting more than the ones who have moved on. I.O.W., you become the loser in that relationship because of your inability to “let go”. You know this is true even if you won’t admit it on a public message board.

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  28. Can I just say, as an air sign I always get negativity for being detached.. Well let me tell you! It’s handy when you need to shut down the heart and be logical ;) scorpios are cool and engaging… But the epitome of a bully.. They have been hurt before, now it’s your turn. And we all know how to deal with bullies :p

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    • MB said:

      Air signs are THE BEST signs to deal with Scorpio bullies (and not all Scorpio men are bullies, but there are plenty who are). Air signs just walk away and can’t be touched…by anything, really.

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